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In Nigeria, we have a lot smothering our sex lives, the weather, economy, religion, family members, and of course romance novels and porn.
Feminsm has taken so many colours and shapes it is difficult to keep up with it, Amber rose shows us her pubic hairs and well… she is trying to end the stigma against pubic hairs… she has empowered women, yay Feminism!
The same people who condemned Chibuihe, excused Dammy Kranes action
Depending on the understanding, he or she can be a listening ear while you whine about the ex but let that not be an expectation. What even makes this easier is if it’s a mutual palate cleansing arrangement.
I used to think that being hit on by a woman would finally allow me say “yes, I’m wanted by all”; but then Port Harcourt happened...
The problem with masturbation is this: while for sex, the rules are clearly stated, especially in religious books about the dos and don’ts, the whens and the wheres, masturbation receives a great deal of silence and ambiguous statements.
When you consider all, it does make sense that the rainy season should indeed call for some lying down together, it’s almost inevitable really.
It’s okay, everybody likes soup, but nobody likes to have one soup, repeatedly, forever, till death do them part.
If you must teach us anything, teach us love, dignity, respect (for others and ourselves), teach us the value of self-improvement, the pursuit of happiness. Then give us room to become.
If today you stand as a man with a smaller than average penis, and you feel insecure and are probably considering trying all those...
And who better to champion all these than the man who is for everyone and for no one?
So what if I hope the day never comes when I need to trade sex for money? What if I wouldn’t want the same for my daughter? But I don’t want to be a taxi driver either, doesn’t mean those that can and do do it should be told no or made to feel smaller.
43 minutes! That's almost a full episode of Game of Thrones. Enough time to give yourself a pedicure, make jollof rice, iron your clothes for the week. 43 minutes! Why will someone even want that?
I think if two adults decide to explore their bodies in a certain way, they should not be judged or condemned for it. And if one partner chooses to abuse the other, one should not be favoured over the other on such grounds, or on any grounds.
2015 was Seize the Bae…2016 was Commit or Commot…And now we’re at 2017… Marry Me or Die.
Over time, the question “what do you think about sex toys?” has been posed to various people, male and female and I’ll just let you read some of my favourite responses.
Sometimes I feel Christmas looking me in the eye, neck inched forward, left hand on left hip and asking the question When will you get a man? And as I think of the answer I don’t have, I realize that Valentine’s Day is on its way
Toke Makinwa & Toxic Relationships: I mean Maje might just be the poster for the Men are Scum campaign, but she.kept.coming.back! For over a decade she kept coming back.